Hello,I have two amazing boys a five year old and a one year old. The five year old is my step son. I have been with his dad for 3 years. when we first got together he had my ss full time. Now we have him every other week. When we first got together he would try to call me mom but i would tell him my name. I did not feel like that was okay at the time. His mom was off partying we would go months with out seeing her. she became prego with her 3rd kid at age 23 at that time she could no longer party and became a mom to her other kids. She also has a 8 year old.