I hate my five year old stepson. We are in the process of getting him an ADHD diagnosis but I fear that even if we succeeded in regulating him he will still be an unlikeable child. Any of my peers or other parents I bring him around see the same thing and any of his peers also shy from playing or being around him. He is starting to teach my own son bad behavior as well. His father is helpless and I do everything for the two of them. I'm drowning and am unable to live the life I had hoped and dreamed for myself and my son.