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using kids as bargining chips ... anyone have a similiar situation ? What to do ?

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My ex still trys to use the kids as bargining chips. She still thinks she can dictate what I should be doing. They live with her and shill drills them about everything we do together when I have them. What park did we go to, what time did we eat lunch. The kids are very yound. It is totally disgusting that people do this. Anyone have a clue what to do with a narssist as a ex ?

ex wife is a control freak

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Well, never thought life would come to this. My ex-wife is a totall control freak that ruined our marriage. I am divorce with two young children that lives with her. I call to talk to them and she always wants me to ask for them. Before , she would just give them the phone, now she wants to control me. She signs up the kids for activities on the little time I spend with them. I don't have anymore money to spend on lawyers because of a nasty divorce she put me though. Now my new girlfriend wants nothing to do with her.