Arg!
So DD and I are planning to get married out of the country this April and have been planning to take SD 15 and SD10. Tickets have been bought, rooms reserved only one problem. BM has sole custody and needs to give us written permission which we have been asking her to do for about 3 months.
BM and kids do not know about our wedding plans; this has been billed as a family vacation. In fact I have not been properly proposed to because of her non-reply. We feel once she finds out relations will get worse (if that is possible).