When my husband and I were married his daughter was six. mydaughter was six and our son was four. We were together almost five years before marring. While his daughter was little it was a constant struggle between us and her mother and she(his daughter) of course was confused,but after the years past everything calmed down because we moved out of state. Now she is sixteen and Im not sure if its the age or she just wants to blame me for her problems,but I have had to put her in her place twice (with my husbands support).Now its like Im being shuned until she wants something.