I feel guilty for the way that I feel about my ss's. The thing is I wouldn't mind helping my dh with them but I'm not helping I'm taking care of them 100% of the time when they visit. They are over every other weekend and they do not spend anytime w/ thier bf, they spend it w/ me because my dh works weekends. I want him to take them on his days off but he shows no interest in doing that.I almost feel like he's pushing them off on me on my weekends when I would like to have some time to myself and relax. Recently he told me that he never wanted children so now I really think that.