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She took her to McDonald's!

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Please see previous post under General Discussion  called SD life at stake!  So a couple weeks have gone by and BM told DH that she could feed their daughter healthier food if she had more help.  So he obliged to help taxi daughter to more of her activities, which are numerous.  So even though he stepped up his game and drove her around at least 3 times during the week, she still managed to take her to McDonald's due to lack of time.  I feel like she just slapped my DH in the face!  He just got cucked from his ex wife and I'm mad!  What kinds of things can he do to push back on this?  He ju

Christmas bills

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I thought the days of spending a grand for Christmas was long behind us. My 3 kids are grown and his two kids are close to grown, 18 and 13. Every time october/november rolls around, I'm in a panic because I haven't managed to save for Christmas, yet the gifts still have to come. I guess because we have a small savings, we are better off than some, but the point is, we are not rich enough to be saddled with a thousand dollar Christmas bill every year. His kids are getting the lions share of this money and so I feel so bad that I have to be so cheap with my kids.

My turn to blog

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I know it's been a long time since I've blogged, but that's because everything has been going so well, thanks in most part to ST! Your own personal blogs have helped me greatly deal with the typical stepfamily issues. I have learned to deal with a lot of sticky situations and put them into context now. However, today I am disappointed, and I feel I should get it out, hopefully get some support, and move on.