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Privacy??
In our home, we stand firm on our beliefs that this is OUR home. If our children have email accounts or facebook, which SD13 does, we have their passwords and yes I do check them. I also go through their rooms every so often.
I saw online there is a New jersey officer who pushes parents into invading their childs privacy.
I have heard SOOO many parents say "my kids tell me EVERYTHING". Really? I think people who believe that are completely naive.
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Clothes....what do you think??
Ok, when my Skids became teenagers my husband set certain rules for what the skids wear. He was 2 girls (13 and 17). One rule is their shirts have to be a certain length. No short shorts or skirts.
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nanny cams
My husband thinks that I am just so horrible to his DD that he always threatens to install nanny cams to prove how awful I am. He told me that I am so awful that dr.Phil would lay into me if he did tape me and were to show it to him. I think if he installed nanny cams he would see what an evil little bitch he and BM have created. Yes, I have my moments but a person can only be pushed so far and he doesn't seem to want to listen. That little bitch can do whatever and always comes out smelling like a rose.
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Just grin and bear it??
My MIL and I got into an argument one night over the phone..via text to be exact. So the next day I get a text from SD17 who now lives on her own. She for some reason thinks she has the right to stick her nose in my business. She got pregnant at 16 and moved in with her bf so they could play house. And ever since she got pregant she thinks shes all big and bad. I was livid that she felt she had some right to stick her nose in my business. So a few days after she texted me she came by the house. I was very short and snippy with her.
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Very envious
I envy all you SM's who only have to deal with ur skids eow. SD13 has been at her moms since thursday and will be coming back tomorrow. It seems so unfair. On days when I do have the pleasure of not having to deal with her, the time just flies. And yet ALL the other days just seem to drag. Her nasally voice echos in my head. Once SD gets back from BM's place tomorrow she doesn't go back again for 3 weeks...that means NO break from this spawn for 3 WHOLE WEEKS!!
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I love it!!
I love how when SD13 misplaces something, some how I had something to do with it. For example, the other day she was looking for her black strapless bra. Well it wasn't where she claimed to have left it. So the insinuation was that I took it. I mean really?? First off, her bra is an A...I wear something some what larger. So WTH would I do with her bra?? Even if I wanted to be mean, why would I take her bra?? its funny though because she just recently got her little "bumps" and thinks that we need to go out and buy her a ton of new "padded" bras. Umm I don't think so.
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WHY????
Ok so SD17 moved out. I was so excited that she left. I have gotten pretty lucky and don't have to see her very often. But every so often the DH will just text her. I don't know why but I get so angry. I just don't know why. Its not very often, maybe once a week but I just can't handle it. Not to mention I would like to know what they are talking about, I always think that they are talking shit about me but he wouldn't tell me even if they were.
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Its statistically proven!
It is statistically proven that most blended families don't last...go figure. I have come to my own conclusion as to why this is. I think that if these bio-parents could pull their heads out of their ass, stop living in a fantasy land where their little angels have perfectly untarnished halos then maybe...just maybe they could see clear enough to put there foot down and stop letting these spawns run their households and their lives!!
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yours, mine and ours!!
When my Dh and I got married, we both took on the roll of "step" parent. My kids were 10 months, 2 1/2 and 4 1/2. His brats were 7 and 11. Being that my kids were younger maybe they adjusted better to the situation. I think the fact that their BD wasn't around helped also.
Over the past 6 years my husband and I have had some knock down drags out because of his kids. His, then 7yr old and I NEVER got along. She has made my life HELL from day 1.
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*THANK YOU*
I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who have come on here and openly shared your own "wonderful" experinces. I have lived 6 years with all these feelings and emotions boiling up inside. Feeling so alone and so horrible for having such awful thoughts and feelings about my skids. Being on here and being able to express my TRUE feelings is just so incredibly invigorating. I feel like this heavy burden has been lifted. So once again THANK YOU
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