Until reading what others have to say I don't feel all alone here. My husband has 2 children from a previous marriage. His Daughter lives with her mother she is sweet His 20 year old son lives with us It has been 4 years going on 5 and I am tired of all the drama my stepson brings here I can't count all the times he has got violent. He has this problem where he wants to be in control over his father and me.