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Best Mother's Day ever!

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Submitted by LRP75 on Sun, 05/12/2013 - 6:54pm

my BS17 took me out to eat, paid for the meal, with his own money, that he earned with his own job.

He also gave me a HUGE hanging baskets of gorgeous hot pink geraniums, that he picked out, and paid for with his own money, that he earned with his own job.

AND he cut both the front and back grass without me asking him to do it. He even whipped and edged.

AND all day he kept asking me what I wanted to do, you know, since it was my day and all.

H won't call BM's aunt...

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Submitted by LRP75 on Fri, 05/10/2013 - 4:03pm

My H decided last night that he doesn't want to call BM's aunt to ask her what's going on.

He doesn't think that it matters. He does believe that BM is having financial issues, but that her "being so candid" with him about those problems feels like she is just trying to get more money from us. He feels that the phone call from BoulderBalls just means that BoulderBalls himself is pissed that he is having to pay BM so much money and that he thinks that if we give BM more money, BM will leave him alone.

BM drama cont...

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Submitted by LRP75 on Thu, 05/09/2013 - 6:22pm

My H and I discussed whether we need to pursue having the twins come live with us for the summer. Naturally, he's all ready to do it.

But then I had to bring reality down onto his ass:

"So then, we are going to file with the FOC to have CS ceased while the twins are living with us, right?"

The look on his face was priceless.

"She would never allow them to come live here if it meant losing CS."

BM drama

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Submitted by LRP75 on Thu, 05/09/2013 - 6:20pm

So my H called BM to talk about his concerns regarding the stuff that he has heard.

Now, mind everything that BM says is, at most, 25% reality based. So, keeping that in mind, according to BM:

1. Yes, her aunt is trying to evict her.

BM claims that her aunt made a deal with BoulderBalls that the rent on the house would only be $400.00. However, supposedly that deal was for BoulderBalls only? Because BM claims that when BoulderBalls moved out, her aunt pushed the rent up to $800.00.

Update

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Submitted by LRP75 on Tue, 05/07/2013 - 6:49pm

So I asked my H what his thoughts on this new drama about BM's ex calling us to ask for more money, etc.

Well, he says that he doesn't believe everything that the guy told him and that he feels that the purpose of the call was to attempt to guilt us into giving BM more money so that he could not have to give her as much AND that the guy probably is just pissed that he is paying out a bunch of money to BM while we are "only" paying $1k.

Ok...

My H said that he is going to call BM to talk to her about it though.

WE don't do our fair share....?

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Submitted by LRP75 on Tue, 05/07/2013 - 5:30am

I've been gone a long time, mainly because things have been going really, really well over here. DH is doing his job as a father and consequently, *surprise, surprise,* the skids pulled their shit together. The long drawn out battles have ceased, the fighting between skids is under control, the nasty disrespectful crap behavior is gone... Things are finally... "normal." Not perfect. But "normal." We were even able to have all three of the kids together with no insane squabbling or fighting.

H and his insane desires to spoil his kid at everyone else's expense

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Submitted by LRP75 on Tue, 01/01/2013 - 8:23pm

So my H drops a bomb on me tonight:

"Now that you are working again and we have more money, I want to pay for SS to play soccer with one of those elite soccer teams."

Me: "Um. NO."

Ok, so my H already pays $1k per month in CS. He already cannot afford this home, utilities, the cost of living, etc. without my income. Without MY income, because of how much he pays in CS, he would be living in his parents basement again.

I swear to God, I lost my mind.

The answer is not just no, it's Hell No.

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