Last year, around the time my husbands ex found out she would not be getting child support as there was no order and she refused him is equal visitation my step daughter 2 at the time started saying I hit her. I was pregnant at the time and was devastated. I have never hit her. She would say it when we were all around people all the time and for the most part everyone knew it wasn’t true. Now she is 3 and HATES me. I cry all the time.