Yes this is probably an impossible sitation to most people's standards. But somehow we've made it work for over a year now. We are talking about getting married and me making the move out to him. The current dating situation for the past year has been to see each other on the weekends...rotating every other at my place and his. I have met his kids and love them dearly. But the fristrating part is that when I do spend time with him and his kids it feels like I'm starting all over again.