... trying to suck me back in. Three text messages from her today, after Loghead told her not to contact me. Two I can ignore, but the third is bugging the crap out of me.

She left me a message back in December, after Loghead had told her not to call, telling me she needed us to make decisions about Christmas 2010 because she wants to take the kids on a vacation holiday. I listened to it, was pissed by it, but ignored it.

Is it okay to tell my DH that if my questions and concerns about skids cause arguments, and if my ideas aren't supported, he shouldn't ask me to support them financially or with transportation needs?

Loghead and I had a family meeting tonight. Our family therapist wanted him to commit to meet with me once a week to discuss my concerns, questions and issues. She thought this would lessen my anxiety, and wouldn't make me "pounce" on him with info the minute he walks in the door at night. In the 2 weeks we've been doing this, it has helped a little.

How did Loghead get 2 days home alone?! Gosh, I would kill for that!

I was on a college visit trip with Princess. Gibby was with us because he stayed with my parents while we were on campus. Lazy Boye was Loca Grande for the 3 day weekend. PITA was at a friend's house.

My darling Loghead had the house to himself for Valentine's Day and President's Day. SO NOT FAIR! Why can't I ever get the house to myself? I could think of a million things I'd want to do. What did he do? Dirty every dish and towel in the house and let the dogs sleep on the furniture...

Loca Grande has invited Princess's boyfriend to lunch on Saturday while the skids are there this weekend. Not normally a problem if he visits a short time, BUT THEY BROKE UP TWO WEEKS AGO! (Yelling for emphasis- not sure why everyone seems to be justifying caps today, but I thought I'd chime in...)

When we questioned Princess about this, she says its because Loca Grande misses him- let's call him Stepping Stone. Loca Grande wants them to get back together.