BM1 isn't FDH's secretary. This is what she tells him whenever he asks her (quoting the CO) to let him know when Sd7's appointments are. Which has been hard for us to keep up with ourselves because she changes them all the time. but, she got a new insurance plan and the new office is the same office FDH's company uses for their random drug testing, so FDH has a patient portal account. The office linked his with SD7's so he get's an email if an appointment is cancelled, made, or missed.

We've been bringing SD7 home early on ' doctors orders' for the last few visits. We were trying to find the doctor and get in contact with her. She finally called FDH back last week.. she made no crazy time or temperature limits on SD. So we kept SD until six pm last night which is his court-ordered right. When FDH dropped SD to GBM she shouted loud enough for him to hear " don't take your coat off SD.

My Ex has no visitation/ no contact; but I ave made sure that my BS's grands can still see BS, I haven't blocked them and I've made the trips to see them when they want (45 min one way). Last time They saw him was right before Thanksgiving, they wanted to take him out for the afternoon and go be grandparents. At that time Nana tells me that her SD and GSD will be flying in from across the country for xmas this year. She wanted to know if I could make time for BS to be with them around xmas and I said sure.

FDH went up to the courthouse Monday, they said they couldn't help him until the new order had been sent out. So he went back today and caused a scene because it's partially their fault BM was able to play this game. Nobody there actually changed his address in the computer, even though he changed it on all his paperwork. That's why the lawyer was able to serve the wrong address.