Well first of all hi to everyone! I have been. Step mom for over 12 years to 2 girls. The oldest step daughter lives with my mother in law. Let go back a bit. Ok the bio mom hasn't been around for over 8 years. The bio mom has lots of mental issues bipolar,multiple personality,agoraphobic. These are just what we know. Anyway we are now dealing with things from these 2 girls. The oldest like I said lives with my mother in law. She visits regularly. Now, the second step daughter is he'll on wheels. She gets on the internet and tells her family we wont't let her see them!