So my partner and i have been together for a little over 2 years. we have a son together (2 months old) and he has a son with someone else and he is 5 years old. we are both in our mid twenties and work was fine before the Covid shock. i was a full time teacher and his work in a salon was great. i earnt more than him but he always paid his part. i receive a bit of help now from the country we live in but it only covers nappies, wipes and 2 weeks worth of food for one month. i spend 40 euros for food a week on 3 people. when his mum found out she was very shocked and asked how.
Im literally about to walk out, SS5 has not stopped talking and doesnt stop talking. I have a new born and im trying to get stuff done. I need some advice, i love DH very much but if this is going to be our lives im not sure i want it like this. The child DOES NOT stop talking and im not exaggerating. It is too much im going mad. I dont want this. He is so rude. I want to grab my things and go which makes me sad because i love DH very much.
Just found out SS5 has to come back for even more days with us in January and DH has to do more pick ups and drop offs for one single day in between of break? Just let him have him for tje days in a row and then drop him off. Hes still paying the same amount of CM and having him more days. We have a newborn and i work from home. The child is bored and is extremely hyperactive. My DH doesnt get to come with me to baby's first vaccine tomoz because of SS.
So my ss5 is staying with us this xmas and it seems that there are complaints for everything and everyone has to be tailored always. He cried at nearly 1am because he wasnt getting a bedtime story because it was late. I had to tell DH that he wasnt a bad person for telling his kid to go to sleep. His step dad shouted at DH to buy the kid meat (we are veggies) and we already have meat in the house for him and tailor his meals to be meat based. Now when he is here he doesnt care and wants milk and cereal so we have expensive meat not being used because he doesnt chose to eat it.