Well, this is my first blog ever! I am so happy to have found this site. I have never felt more alone and confused as I do now. Who would have thought! It is so nice to know that I am not alone and there are others out there just like me. I have been reading blogs for two weeks now and want to thank all who recommended the book "Stepmonster"....Thank You! I am sure I will be a frequent flyer as there is a crazy BM in my picture and she is making my life a living hell. I have been deligated to the position of "Unpaid Nanny"....did I apply for this position? HHMMM?