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SD caught in school

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DH just got told by his daughters maternal grandmother that she was just caught with marijuana at school. I guess she was trying to sell it online and at school. My DH doesn’t seem to understand why i don’t think it is a good idea to have her around our two younger children. She just turned 13. I just don’t know what to do or what to say. I needed to vent and maybe get some helpful advice & opinions.

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SD

My DHs daughter only texts or calls when she wants money or a ride. We live about 30-45 minutes away from my SD who is 13. DH will text her every day when he wakes up around 2pm (he works 3rd shift). He’ll ask how her day was and it will take her 2+ hours to text him back with 1 word responses like “good” , “fine” , “idk” etc. But as soon as she needs money or a ride she replies almost instantly. I know his obligation is to take care of her, but this is getting ridiculous.

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Crisis

Found out SDs gram sent her to crisis. I guess she was cutting and when she was asked about it her reply was “I don’t know”. But she wasn’t trying to hide the fact that she was doing it. I really do feel like it’s to get attention.

The grandmother didn’t know what else to do, so SD is in there for 7-10 days unless they discover she has more issues. I’m hoping she gets right because until she does she’s not welcome in my family’s home.

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New SD

I need opinions. Something!

my situation is confusing, please no bashing. And sorry for being all over the place

I met my DH when I was 17, he was 16. We’ve been together 11 years now. He already had a child that the BMs mom took custody of because neither the BM or BD were capable of taking proper care of her. She was born when he was 14. (Yes I know, super young).

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