I got divorced last year after having seperated from husband 4 years previously.He had an affair with one of my kids friend s mother and i m unsure whether this was his only affair or if there had been more.we have shared care of our 5 children aged 21 down to 11.I have been with my partner for 4 years and have lived together for 2- he is divorced and has 3 children one of which is severely disabled and he has shared care too.we both work fulltime and both of us are nurses.We both find life tricky with each others children at times and our exes.I find it particularly difficult with his disa