I'm glad that I found this web site, hopefully it will help. To start I have a ten year old step son, and I daughter that I am the biological father to. I'm not sure how to put this, but I can no longer tolerate my step son. I feel terrible about it, but there is no way of sugar coating it. He has sever ADHD and every day is just such a grind. Its almost like he lives in constant opposition to the rest of us, including his mother. I don't know how to shake this feeling or if I even can.