My husband and I have been married for 14 years he has a 18 almost 19 year old son we have a 7 year old son together and a baby on the way. My step son was 1 when I meet my husband and lived with his mom. My SS mom dated a lot of men and moved around a lot. SS got in trouble starting at an early age. At 9 we took full custody of him. He still always seemed to get in trouble and always lied to everyone. He started stealing from family friends at school money i pods. He behavior seemed to always get worse not better no matter what we did.