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So his is totally unrelated.. but I've known my dh for 8yrs now. Married for 3ys and have 2sons together.. And I know every relationship has its problems. But once in a rare blue moon, my dh goes and flirts with other woman. Gets their numbers amd txt / call... watever. But it never gets far cuz I always catch him..I go thru his phone.... that's as far as it always goes. He neve deletes his msgs tho. Even when he knows I always check... but at the same time it hurts... I do love him.. and I know he loves me too.. its just sometimes he doesn't think before he act.

been putting up with it for a while but now I'm pissed

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So for a while ive been ok with DH seeing his hideous BD... I hate it but ive been puting up with it. Then all of a sudden, he comes with this ridiculous idea to bring our 2 BS (4, 3) and go see that THING..... wtf??? I resent the idea about my sons being brought over there to his BM house so he can spend time with his BD aling with OUR BS...

BM Attempting to use DH identity?!?!

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Ok.. So I had a conversation with DH about whatever and he told me that BM knows his social and planned on using his name to open up a life insurance for probably herself and the kid she has with him. So he told me hat she wasn't sure if she was joking or not.. But I'm definitely not happy with it at all.. I told her that he needs to check BM. Especially since he does t want HER knowing and having access to his social security....
So what should I do???

Unfairness????

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Sooo... SD11 has been irking me for a while cus she has been acting so needy... And SD has DH wrapped around her fat finger. Even though me and DH have two BS (3-4) , he doesn't really get to spent time with them as much cuz he's always working... But nowadays, most of his time when he has time, is spent hanging out with SD.
Pffhhhtt....

Not my Bio sons sister!

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How do I get my DH to understand that I don't want our sons to be around SD and to also not bring them around his wretched BM house when he see his daughter.... My sons dont have any other siblings... And I do not consider SD as my sons Half sister or any of that sort...
Help?!

i dont know what to do....

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its driving me crazy...

its really fucked up that the shit i feel about his other kid, my SD, i have to keep to myself.

my husband, always gets upset with me whenever he sees that i get upset about him mentioning his daughter to me.

i literally cant take hearing of his other half at all.. and it drives me frikkin crazy... like he expects me to jump for joy or something. and he just doesn't seem to understand how i really feel nor could i ever tell him exactly how i feel.. it would only end up... me and him fighting.

its resent and hate together!!!!!

confused <<<<

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so im a little confused...

ive been reading some posts here and realized...

other than BM which stands for baby mom..

what do the others mean???

~SD
~BD
~FH
~DH
~OSD....YSD
~SS???

sry if im a bit of a noob... im totally new to this site..

help educate me! :jawdrop:

I HATE my stepdaughter... does this make me a bad person?

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So yea.... I hate my stepdaughter... Me and my husband have been together for 7 yrs total.. married 2 yrs ago. We have 2 handsome sons now ages 4 and 3.
Ive known he had a daughter (now 11 or 12 yrs old) since we first started to date. I never liked the fact that he already had a kid, so I tried to force myself to like her. but the more i did that, the more and more i started to hate her. his daughter mom is just... well i dont like her too.... but i hate feeling the way i do when shes around. his daughter totally hates me, and tried to steal my engagement ring out of my room.