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Anyone out there in this situation? Still finding it hard to adjust to living with many people after 4 years.

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If anyone has been in this situation, or can relate somehow, I would sincerely appreciate some support and advice. I went from being a 32 year old career oriented woman, who never had anything but herself and her life to focus on... to being a mom, and step-mom all in the period of one month! I still have not adjusted after 4 years and find myself craving more and more, time to myself.

Update to Boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me with Ex

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First, I want to thank everyone who took the time to respond to my blog a week or so ago, regarding my BF cheating on me with his ex 6 mos ago, and wondering how I'm supposed to cope with this. You all were very kind and thoughtful in your posts and I've read and considered everything.

Boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me with ex-wife. How do I cope?

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I'm wondering if anyone out there has gone through this, or should I say "going" through this as I don't believe you ever really get over it, especially if you make the decision to try to work things out, as I have. This is not due to lack of self-esteem on my part, or any other reason than the sake of our almost 3 year old daughter, and the simple fact that I love him... I apologize in advance for the length, but truly am hoping for some good advice out there on how to cope with this situation.