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A bit OT...but related our fathers

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It hit me like a lightning bolt and woke me up. I went to bed wondering what to do...

So I am wondering, for those of you whose DH takes you for granted and you continue to chug along, for those whose skids disrespect you and your DH does little to nothing to stop it, for those of you whose in-laws treat you like crap and your DH does not stand up to them, to those of you living this hell for more than a couple of years...

What type of father did you have? Mean, abusive, treated you like crap or the total opposite?

OT-doesn't it su#$%k when I treat you as you treated me...LONG VENT

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So, as some of you know, DH has been without work since about October. I work full-time. No problem with me. I told him we could reverse our roles.

Funny, it has been about what 8 months now and he is resentful that I don't do more around the house. The poor guy has to do it all and it is just not fair that he is expected to do so much while I work full-time, or work on my other side-businesses or my volunteer stuff. Mind you, I still off and on do the homeschooling with our kiddo, but he does most of it. I also clean sometimes, although he does 80% of it.

OT-I missed this...girl kills mother and step-father

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Geez...these kids are crazy and I tell you, I am staying the HELL away from loser the rest of my life...

http://www.scpr.org/news/2013/05/10/37226/16-year-old-compton-girl-guilt...

I am also wondering about that 12yr old boy who killed his "sister" as I had read somewhere that this was a blended family...anyone know?

OT-Castro nightmare, step-father, and SKIDS...watch out

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I have been following this nightmare closely and I have to say the more I know, the more I worry about so many here. There is the step-dad accused of molestation by the SKIDS and more...

To everyone here, with crazy SKIDS, BMs or BFs who make false accusations, please take things seriously. People who make such accusations will not stop until they get caught in their lies and could care less whose lives they destroy.

OT-woman, in-laws kill the ex-husband...yikes

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Just read this and thought about everyone here...some of these women are REALLY crazy...please always be careful. I know I am. Stay the heck away from these crazies...if you ever get ANY threats, TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY...

http://news.yahoo.com/nj-woman-parents-admit-roles-exs-slaying-164223726...

OT-quick update on DH visited MIL about his step-father being in the hospital

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So my DH went to visit his step-father and of course his mother last week. In case you don't recall, MIL is crazy and a witch and because DH doesn't do as she says, ie. call her all the time, visit her all the time, etc. she decided she would NOT call him to tell him his step-dad, whom he adores was in the hospital with heart problems. My DH found out AFTER his step-dad was out of the hospital from his brother.

OT-for those of you with autistic kiddos or step kids please watch this

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I just watched this film and it was amazing. As the mother of a child with autism, I know how difficult it is, especially when our kids are little to deal with their issues. It is one thing for a bio-parent to deal with this, but as a step-mom or step-dad, I can only imagine that it is so much harder.

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