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OT-Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce ***REVIEW*** awesome!

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If there is a book that ALL of us need, it is this one! It is a very easy read and it truly explains so much that we had no idea about. Although of course, she is the bearer of bad news, the author explains things very well and makes the book actually a bit "fun"...or as fun as this issue can be. I wish I had this book 13 years ago, but even now, there are a couple of things that I learned. We are almost at the end of CS, so some things no longer apply, yet there were many things that still apply to us.

OT-Every Single Girl's Guide to Her Future Husband's Last Divorce

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I just found this book on Amazon and it has pretty good reviews. Of course, I am a bit freaking late, but I am hoping that I can start to fix some of the things...Has anyone read it? If not, at least for the newbies and NOT married yet, check it out...it might be the best advice most of us can give you.

Here's the link

http://www.amazon.com/Every-Single-Future-Husbands-Divorce/dp/0971567921

Do your DH's act like AHOLES on Father's Day?

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This is the 3rd or 4th year in a row that Father's Day turns into a disaster. I am pretty sick of it by now. My DH HAS to eat breakfast or lunch by 11AM or he turns into the devil. Well, sure enough, he didn't eat breakfast yesterday at the hotel, although I told him to eat something. I kept bugging him and he just said he was fine. He later said he'd drink a beer instead. Ahole. So, at 1PM I told him to go get a beer or something (because honestly, I was sick of seeing his pathetic face).

OT-NEED help URGENT - newborn kitten - please help

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I just found a newborn kitten, no bigger than 4-5 inches long on the sidewalk. Where I live, there are animals everywhere...sigh. I am hoping I can find him a shelter or something tomorrow, as my son is highly allergic to cats. I couldn't just leave him there in the middle of the sidewalk where someone would step on him or kill him.

I put him in a box with a small towel to keep him warm. There is no place for me to go to buy anything for him at this time of the night. I keep reading I can't even feed him water at this point. Does anyone know what I can do? Please help.

OT-interesting article, younger women older men and BAGGAGE (which applies to many of us here!)

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I just read this because of the younger woman older man deal, but it was interesting to also see something written about the ex-wife, kids and the nightmare that all that means for many women. Check it out.

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/why-younger-women-date-older-men-1459004...

PS - I agree 100%...people with baggage, should date/marry other people with baggage

OT-Defiant children...a must read!

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My son is normally pretty good...but then there are days that I am stressed and he is just a nightmare. It's one of those times you really wonder what came first, the chicken or the egg. I have to say that "it's my stress" affecting him...It sucks, because we can't always control it, but we must. I started reading this book about a week ago and I have to say that in just a few short days I have seen my son change so much.

Boundaries with in-laws, ex's, etc...he is finally getting it...

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I want to let everyone here know about the Emtional Incest book that someone here recommended to me. I have to say that it has been a lifesaver. Although DH has not read it, I have read it and have discussed some of the things with him. One of the key issues we have had with his crazy family, ex, daughter, etc...was the fact that they constantly stepped over our boundaries. They were always trying to tell us what to do with ourselves, our son, his daughter, his mother, etc...they drove us nuts. We had so many issues because of it.

OT-any book recommendations on dealing with crazy MILs?

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Just wondering. Yes, we are still with the whole "does the witch have cancer or not" thing. The latest is that she went to the US, as she had previously stated she would do and she is now back. Just as I imagined, although she claimed she was going to "get a second opinion or tests done, etc..." because her wonderful daughter was going to set everything up, well, no, she went and never visited a doctor.

OT-other people using your DHs SSN or YOURS? I know it happened to my DH...idiot EX

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So I just read this and though I would pass it on. Interesting article on others with your SSN and a great website, with great BBB score to check if you could be at risk. I know crazy ex has used my DHs SSN or her crappy husband...but we haven't had time to figure the mess out yet. We will once CS is over.

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