First time entry....just stressed. I am a widow, after a very successful and loving 23-year marriage. I have one child, college graduate, successful, works, supports herself, and owns her home. I am in a relationship with a divorced man with two grown children. Over the past 5 years, I have seen his grown children treat him with incredible disrespect (not tolerated in my world!). The SD dropped out of school, and lives off of our taxes in a trailer along with her two children and baby daddy.