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So where's the follow threw?

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DH and I split up some time ago. We stayed that way for a few months. After I was able to look at him or hear his voice with out wanting to claw his eyes out we began talking to see if this could be saved and if we wanted to try to save it.
I did lay down some boundaries and I guess you could say ground rules for giving this another shot. He did as well and I thought we were heading down the right track. I saw improvments on both our sides, and it started feeling like things were going to be ok. Now I'm just not sure.

She made it too easy.

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DH actually came up with a great idea, he asked Inbred if he could get them a different night this week so that he could go with us to OBS dinner. She agreed but of course she tells him at 5pm that it has to be this night or just don't see them until his next visit. He was rushing to get out of the house and like a dumbass I went with him because he still hasn't fixed the AC in his car.
I told him before hand I was not going into any public bathrooms unless I had to pee.

Would you just get a f&%king job!!!

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Inbred sent the kids this weekend with a specific message. After DH picked them up I was greeted at the door with
"Can we change our budget for this week?"
Well hello to you to DH, my day was good thanks for asking. And no we can't.
Oh here comes the pouting from dPPP.
Me-What??
DH- Inbred told them we would buy their halloween costumes this weekend.
Me- Why would she do that? Did you tell her you would buy them?
DH - No, I guess she figured I would.

Excuse me while I step down from my high horse.

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So, I've bashed my BM...
People are understanding, tell me how they feel my pain, how they're right there with me and how stupid and evil she it.
I've bashed my skids,
I get much of the same. They all hate theirs, I handle things well, I'm a hero...some one really told that.
I complain...to the point of bashing I guess and again
Cheers from the audience.
I don't think there's ever a good reason to walk away from your child.
*screeching breaks*

It's a sad, sad day to be a human.

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I read a post earlier today. She was talking about how her DH is walking away from his child.
He will pay the CS and count down the days until the kid turns 18 but he will have no more than that do with his child. For the sanity and happiness of their happy home and future children they will have together he is going to just walk away from his child and leave him to wonder "Where's my dad?"

And do you see your mommy here??

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My weekend started off with a phone call while I was on my way home.
DH- Can you pick up some jumbo size marshmellows?
Me- Why on earth would I do that.
DH- Because that's dPPP favorite desert.
Me- Really? Marshmellows? That's what you and Inbred are raising her on?
DH- Would you please just pick up a bag?
Oh sure, because nothing is more thrilling then stopping at the grocery store on a Friday at 5 when you just want to get home. But, her royal heiness is coming, must drop everything to please her.

Well you're not either dumbass

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Oh lord, here we go. It's been a good 6 months but I knew it couldn't last forever.
Inbred is either back on her crazy juice or off of her meds. I don't know if she's ever actually been on any medication but I've often said to her and every one it couldn't hurt her to give some a try. Honestly, the peaceful six months we've had I thought she might have taken my advice, but now I'm guessing she just found a toy to play with for a while.

Oh for petes sake!!

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I began disengaging about two weeks or so ago. It has been nice I will admit. I do my own thing with my bios and they do theirs with their dad. I've had a few set backs here and there but I'm a work in progress.
Inbred never liked the fact that I was involved. She constantly complained that I don't cook right for her kids, (they are use to well balanced mcdonalds and pizza diet) I shouldn't be in any decisions about anything, I shouldn't have a say in their bed time or anything. It's been a struggle almost every time they come for their visit.

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