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Happy St. Patrick's day everyone.

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It's been a while, so hello all. I've had a very good month. XDH is completely gone. It took me a few weeks to get all evidence of him and his spawn out of my house but I did it. We are all much happier. His name isn't even mentioned around our house any more. I had to block him, his entire family, and all of his friends from fb, my phone, and emailing me but it only took about 45 minutes or so. I've been remodeling my house, letting the kids have their ideas incorporated so we all feel like this our home, not our prison.

This sums it up.

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I read this not to long ago and thought to myself...wow, it's almost as if they were in my house watching my life with EH. I've tried to figure out how this happened. How did I let him do this. Not to toot my horn but I do consider myself an inteligent woman, but I was really too stupid to see the warning signs.
http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/138933/15_signs_youre_in_an?utm_medi...

And it happened

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I got home last night and checked my mail. There were the concert tickets I bought for DH for Valentines day. I kept it all in all night. After the kids went to bed and I was alone in my bedroom I broke down. I realized that even though my feelings had changed for him there was never a time I did not see him when I imagined my future. He was always in the thoughts.
I was probably up till after midnight bawling like a spoiled child who gets told no.

Not wasting time...

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I have had little bouts of sadness here and there but nothing to bad. Mainly when doing something I always did with DH. I have an appointment with a lawyer on Thursday to file. I really have no clue if XDH will give me trouble or just sign. Knowing him..trouble. Today I was busy bee. Got all the utilities transfered to my name, closed the joint account, and had to make an appointment to see about refinancing my car in my name only. He has already threatened to take my car. I refuse to meet with him or speak with him, I just can't.

I'm no longer a SM

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DH and I split last night. There is nothing left to fix. Last night was the first time in a very long time that I slept by myself, I thought I would have been sadder but I wasn't. I slept great, woke and felt like such a weight had been lifted off of me. Packed all of DH's stuff and put it on the porch for him to get. I hate to sound heartless but I'm not sad. I feel like we have been split for a while and both so complacent with each other we just never pulled the trigger. I don't want to live in complacency any longer. I have no clue what my next move is here.

Where'd she go?

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I was about to comment and all of a sudden page not found.
WTH is up with that?
I can tell all of you this, at least in the part of Texas I live in we look at people who know and don't report the same as if they commited the act themselves. Now I don't think that's cyber bullying but then again I'm not a teacher.

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