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Evil stepmonster's picture

The night EH and I split up, he ripped my phone out of my hands and took it with him. On Sunday he brought it back to me, but there was something different about it.
I never understood why he gave it back, the police said it was his word over mine and they couldn't force him to give back the phone. And all week he has been sending me emails telling me if I'm not nice to him he will cut off my phone. The plan is under his name which is being switched this weekend. But last night I got an email that got me suspicious. He said Friday he would be going to pay the phone bill for me so I wouldn't have to worry about being with out a phone. All of a sudden, he's paying mine and my sons phone bill?
I then remembered a news story I had watched that morning, about stalker spyware one can install on someones phone if they can get access to it for five minutes. He had my phone for two days. Then I remembered how strange my phone had been acting the last few days. If I wasn't at home, or at work it would come on automatically. I kept getting notices that my GPS was accessing and last night when I had gotten home some how with me having to touch my phone at all because I don't mess with it while I'm driving, my phone had taken a screen shot all by itself.
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure EH put the stalker app on my phone. I can't catch him, because to get a forensic diagnostic on my phone is way to expensive but I can foil it.
I'm getting my phone comepletely wiped today after work. I was told by four phone places once I hard reset it and clean the SD card anything that was put on it would be taken off. No more spying.
I'm kind of glad he did that, another reminder of why I have to get away from him.

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DaizyDuke's picture

I love this! We need this charge on the penal law books.. "something related to being a psycho" LOL

Would solve most of our BM problems! BM, I herby find you guilty of first degree something related to being a psycho and sentence you to life in a cave with a big boulder for the rest of your life. Wink

HungryEyes's picture

Yes. BM would have been charged with all types of things that were 'something related to being a psycho'

momandmore's picture

Hahaha! Our BM would have multiple offenses for digging through our trash cans on film. Lol. Love it!

Evil stepmonster's picture

I bought the phone with my refund money, and I can't afford a new one just yet. I made sure to seperate all our accounts on Monday.

Evil stepmonster's picture

I was thinking about that, but his mother is in good with alot of high ranking officials, she always gets him out of things, even if evidence "gets lost"

Evil stepmonster's picture

Hmmm, me and a friend have been talking about going to the casino in the next state over.

AllySkoo's picture

You said the plan is being changed to your name though? And DH won't have access? I hope I have that right, because you definitely need to do that as well. Our cell phone company has a plan that allows you to track a phone (GPS) without installing anything on it. DH turned it on when we were having issues with SD(then17) lying about where she was.

zerostepdrama's picture

Creepy indeed. I'm freakin annoyed and mad for you. I hate controlling freaks. My ex would have done this to me if he had thought about it.

momandmore's picture

That's very creepy. I like the above mentioned ideas of going across the state line or giving it away.

Evil stepmonster's picture

Thank you all for the suggestions, I am going to talk to the police today but they were not much help when dealing with him the last time. I guess a report can't hurt though.

Gwynnafaye's picture

If you could physically do it - pull down your pants, bend over, reach under and take a picture of your hand giving the finger in front of your bare ass. See how he likes that.