:? Hi I've been raising my step son since he was six months, he is now three and i still can't get attached and i find myself not really wanting to , i would really like his mom to take him. but she won't. i always feel bad, i think maybe these feelings will go away but after three years they haven't yet.i don't know what to do. i want to tell my husband, i have a couple times, but i think he hopes for me to get over it. i don't know i need help.