Where do I start? Ive been with dh for 8 years, I have two girls and he has a boy and a girl. The kids were young sd being the youngest at 3. I poured myself into sm position, I did everything , everything... we had sd ss often n I became a mom of four ( so I thought) sd and ss were at nightmare at times, yell n cry for hours, meanwhile I would explain to my kids to try to be understanding and that ss n sd were just having a hard time....... fast foward to 5 years later, I was a depressed, confused mess and dh