Hi to everyone. I’m so relieved to find this web site. PLEASE, I need advise about ways to cope. My husband and I have been married going on 5 yrs. I bring 3 children and he brings 3 children. We have custody of 5; my husbands oldest child (16 yrs) was awarded custody to his mom because he didn’t like me and he didn’t like being at our house. He acts up all the time, calls his mom constantly if he is corrected, gets really bad grades at school because he doesn’t do homework or study (and told the judge we “hassled” him about schoolwork), and he hit and pushed my husband.