Everytime my skids come over they have greasy hair and smell of b.o. When they are with us they always have to be reminded to shower, brush teeteh, etc. They wont even eat something without someone telling them specifics about what there is to eat etc. I have raised my kids to be very independant and this drives me nuts!! How does their mom let them go all week like that. And thats just the start, even on a nice sunny day they would rather sit inside alday, playing video games or reading, not that their is nothing wrong with reading.