My SS moved in with us with no notice, things I dislike the most, he is loud, he sucks up to my bio-kids and anyone else he can to get what he wants, he is messy, he lies, he losses his things and then just takes my bio-kids stuff and these are just some. I in turn am resentful that he is living with us because when I married his father the bio-mother would not even allow for them to sleep over because she was mad her ex moved on so I thought I was home free with the skids not having to spend too much time with us.