BM had a total melt down, flipped the switch, and blew. SD called DH bawling said BM and her were fighting and BM shoved her down the stairs. BM was kicked out of the house (she lives with her parents) so DH picked up SD. SD told me later that BM said she was going to kill her and that BM said all kinds of nasty things about me, then SD told me "but don't worry, I know she's just jealous of you". BM's parent's let her back in the next night then called SD to tell her that they were only going to let BM stay if she saught psychiatric help.

So I had to vent. I feel so bad for SD (almost 11). My husband and BM recently concluded a year & a half custody battle, judge never made a decision, husband was tired of waiting and settled with BM. SD is with us all summer and most holidays according to new agreement, but is to spend most of school year (with the exception of every other weekend) with BM. BM was allowed a one week vacation with SD. That just so happened to be this past week.