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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Tue, 01/20/2009 - 6:52pm

I just had an epiphany...I am noting more then a housekeeper/nanny. My husband came home from work and immediatley got changed to go to basketball wih my son. Now I know you are thinking, how nice, but come on ladies...we all know that he is doing it because he looks good in the community if he is coaching a youth sport. He tells me he is leaving the SS here. I have had him ALL DAY. He has already peed in the bed and almost pooped his pants.

Is Stupid Genetic? UPdaTe!

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Mon, 01/19/2009 - 6:48pm

So I told you guys that my husband's coaches my son's basketball team. He voluteered. Today we get an email from one of the parents on the Rec Org telling us that there were parents requesting that their child not be on his team because they didn't like the way he talked to the kids. Little history.....Crazy's :evil: sister lives in the same SMALL town that we do, we will further refer to her as Cow.

It keeps getting better and better!

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Thu, 01/15/2009 - 2:02pm

Last month we figured out that my SS's mother's attorney had withdrawn from her case. Wonder why....could be because she LIES and doesn't know how to pay a bill! Well we just got notice that she has a new attorney. His specialty? DUI and Domestic Violence! This should be interesting when we go to court! Oh, and of course he wants a continuence when she waited an entire month to find a freaking attorney! I will keep you posted!

Is stupid genetic?

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Wed, 01/14/2009 - 7:47pm

So my son had a ballgame. Well my SS's aunt lives in the same town we do and her son plays ball. Just so happen's that this game was against BM's nephew's team. So my SS and I am sitting on the bleachers and who comes to sit next to me but BM's dad, BM's sister and her husband, his mother, father, and some other family.I was SURROUNDED! The grandpa didn't say a word to my SS until he spoke to the uncle and grandfather- he is 3. Then the cousin came over. Well, my SS decided that since his aunt was there, he could mouth off. Which he promply did and then he took off with the cousin.

The Nerve

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Wed, 01/14/2009 - 8:20am

So I know in my first blog I told you all how my husband is taking Crazy }:) back for sole custody. Well, last month we found out by accident that her attorney dumped her. At this time, she still does not have any representation. Wouldn't you know that yesterday he gets a letter in the mail asking why WE can't just get along and be able to talk about OUR son together without interruption.

What do you think?

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Tue, 01/13/2009 - 8:09pm

I am asking my fellow stepmonsters/witches Wink what do you think your roll in your stepchildren's life is? My stepson's "Crazy" as we affectionately refer to her as tells my husband all the time that I have NO say in my stepson's disapline, physician visits, daycare/school issues, absolutely nothing!

New at this.....New at alot of things!

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Submitted by Dealing_with_Drama on Tue, 01/13/2009 - 3:24pm

I am new to this. My husband and I have been together for 3 years, married for 1 year. We have basically been "at war" with his ex-girlfriend for 3 years. I will admit, I thought that when we got married she would back off, but that is not the case. She filed from divorce from my husband in '06 and it was finally final in '07. Funny, how it can take so long to get divorced from someone that were never married to, they had to make up a "wedding date" for the divorce papers. My SS3 did well with the constant back and forth until '07.