New at this.....New at alot of things!
I am new to this. My husband and I have been together for 3 years, married for 1 year. We have basically been "at war" with his ex-girlfriend for 3 years. I will admit, I thought that when we got married she would back off, but that is not the case. She filed from divorce from my husband in '06 and it was finally final in '07. Funny, how it can take so long to get divorced from someone that were never married to, they had to make up a "wedding date" for the divorce papers. My SS3 did well with the constant back and forth until '07. His BM took him for a "vacation" and when he came back, he wanted nothing to do with any of us. I have a BS10 from a previous relationship and we have a decent relationship with his BF. The BM has been charged with harassment, starting taking my SS3 to counseling without my husband's consent, has since filed a complaint against the therapist that she chose because he wasn't on her side, taked my SS3 out of his Learning Center and took him somewhere else, and was told by a speech path (my SS3 now has a severe stuttering problem) and the therapist that she was emotionally abusing her son. My husband has since filed papers to take her to court for sole custody of my SS3. We go on Feb 3 & 4. My SS3 tells me everyday how much his mother hates me; his daddy loves his mother and that his daddy used to live with his mother and him until I came along. He will be 4 in March. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. We are expecting and trying to finish our basement but all of our $$$$ is going to a lawyer to get a child who has no respect for me or our home. Thanks for listening.