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Is stupid genetic?

Dealing_with_Drama's picture

So my son had a ballgame. Well my SS's aunt lives in the same town we do and her son plays ball. Just so happen's that this game was against BM's nephew's team. So my SS and I am sitting on the bleachers and who comes to sit next to me but BM's dad, BM's sister and her husband, his mother, father, and some other family.I was SURROUNDED! The grandpa didn't say a word to my SS until he spoke to the uncle and grandfather- he is 3. Then the cousin came over. Well, my SS decided that since his aunt was there, he could mouth off. Which he promply did and then he took off with the cousin. After that he asked for jellybeans and I said, NO. This kid eats nothing but crap all the time. So the cousin goes and gets the jellybeans and gives them to him. My husband dealt with him when we got home and then told me that I should of taken the jellybeans away from him. I have tried to ask him to look at it from my perspective. He must have tunnel vision. God love him.

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Grumpy's picture

I have found in my 12 years as a stepwitch, that genetics plays a HUGE part in it!!! Of course a lot of it with the BM and extended family has to do with how the BM allows them to act! And if it is OK there, then of COURSE it is fine here.

But really...socks only on SS16 outside in the mud to pick up dog doo? HONESTLY!!! Ignorance is inherant! But the ones that make the choices to be stupid.. that is genetics!

The light at the end of the tunnel is NOT a train!!

DISbelief's picture

My sister is staying with me for a few weeks and I about FELL out when I saw her son (14) in the back year piccking up dog doo, barefoot. He was directed straight upstairs to take a shower after that.

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )

DISbelief's picture

YES~

BM is EXACTLY as stupid as her mother. SAD. Lets hope it stopped there in the blood line and my SS didn't get any residule stupid genes... hopefully FH has STRONG enough genes to make up for it.

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )