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Jealous SD.....uuugggghhhh!!!!!!!

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Submitted by crystalyzed on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 2:24pm

So today is my BD's 10th birthday. And for EVERYONEs bday I always make choc chip pancakes and put candle in it and we allsing happy birthday. And for EVERYONEs bday SD10 is jealous but the worst when it is my bkids bdays. So this morning the little brat of course sat there with an evil stare **** did not sing ****while the rest of us sang. My SD6 and SS7 sang but quietly and like they were forced to do it no smile nothing actually SS7 sat there with his head resting on his hand rolling his eyes. Ok and this is just in the morning.

SKID weekend, what fun!!!!!!

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Submitted by crystalyzed on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 12:25pm

So this is our weekend with all the skids SD10, SD6, SS7 the SS7 lives with us and stays with us this weekend along with his sisters. My husband is never home on saturdays until 4:30 5pm, So not only do I have to do all the cooking and cleaning up after, taking care of 6 kids, but 3 of them are disrespectful, hyper, spiteful and devious little MONSTERS. So while I spend my saturday (which is my BD's 10th birthday), cooking-cleaning-playing referee-protecting my two youngest sons from the cruelty of their supposed "siblings"-dealing with attitude and sarcastic insults from my skids.

Does happiness ever come back??????

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Submitted by crystalyzed on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 1:37pm

OK so dealing with my SS is very hard and even when him and his sisters are only here on weekends it's hard.I feel incredibly guilty that my own children have experienced so much drama from this whole mess. I'm never happy anymore, i'm not myself anymore, I used to be so happy any relaxed all the time and calm and optimistic, what happened to me. These skids and their BM have ruined my whole outlook on life. I have put my own Bkids aside for these skids to make things "fair" and "comfertable" for them and they are nothing but ignorrant little brats.

Contact with the Ex Wife????

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Submitted by crystalyzed on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 10:00am

My husbands ex wife, skids mother,calls and texts a lot. Child support is paid through probation which is what she demanded, but she calls/texts him a few times a week to ask about child support (why is it late when is it coming)like a crack addict-no joke!If there is a holiday forget it she goes nuts my husband has to explain that it is a holiday and their office is closed hello! Also she is constantly demanding extra money for things, he gives it to her, and she still treats him like shit.

Please give some feed back or advise!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by crystalyzed on Wed, 11/09/2011 - 9:28pm

My first blog but I have been doing a lot of reading on this site and it has HELPED me feel so much better at times. But now I need to blog-I need advise. I have a 9yo BD(her BF has never been around but she calls my husband daddy and loves him very much) I have a 3yo BS1 and a 1yo BS2, and another baby on the way, all with my husband (this is my first and only marriage).