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SKID weekend, what fun!!!!!!

crystalyzed's picture

So this is our weekend with all the skids SD10, SD6, SS7 the SS7 lives with us and stays with us this weekend along with his sisters. My husband is never home on saturdays until 4:30 5pm, So not only do I have to do all the cooking and cleaning up after, taking care of 6 kids, but 3 of them are disrespectful, hyper, spiteful and devious little MONSTERS. So while I spend my saturday (which is my BD's 10th birthday), cooking-cleaning-playing referee-protecting my two youngest sons from the cruelty of their supposed "siblings"-dealing with attitude and sarcastic insults from my skids. Having only my father and my aunt over for cake for my BD's birthday, but then I get to deal with the angry little monsters jealousy of what my daughter get for her birthday and have to deal with whe whining baby drama.....But guess what I wiil feel good this year because i'm getting my BD anything she wants this year, she only gets gifts from me anyway her BF is not around my husbands family barely even notices it's her birthday, and the skids are OVERLY spoiled by my IL's. But when it comes to the other kids my Bkids, 2 of which are my husbands (3yoBS&1yoBS) it's not even comparable. But still his kids always make a big dramatic thing about it especially SD10.......such a jealous drama queen.....but when she is given 5 times the amount of gifts as anyone else no one says a word not even my BD. My poor BD wonders why my MIL.....who she thinks is her Bio grandma, doesn't ever send her a card or write her letters or express her love like she (MIL) does for her other 3 grandchildren, My BS's will probably wonder the same thing when they are older.........Just another lovely aspect of having SKIDS!!!!!!!BUT this year will be different for birthdays and for christmas........hey the SKIDS get from 2 houses anyway they don't need to get as much as my kids get,besides the IL's make sure those kids get way more, screw that!!!!I'm tired of my BD not being able to get what she wants for christmas because we can't afford it for ALL of them(just his other 3) and it turns out they get it any way from BM or IL's anyway and my BD gets shit once again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Well i'm done with my kids getting the shitty end of the stick year after year, me and my family plays it fair and equal, well F*@k that,NO MORE those Skids are so mean rude and ungreatful, what does that show my bkids be bad and get everything you want...be good and get shit but still be greatful.....!!!!!!!!!!!Well we will see what shit this stirs up with my husband he HATES when I buy anything for my BD but he pretends like it doesn't bother him oh well, you don't like it there is the door I AM FED UP WITH THE SHIT FROM YOUR KIDS!!!! It feels so good to get it out.

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imjustthemaid's picture

First of all I feel for you being stuck with all of those kids by yourself all day. I can barely handle my 3. I know exactly how you feel about the birthdays. I dread birthdays in this house because SD15 (yes 15 yrs old) cannot handle anybody getting presents or attention on their bday. She plays sick, runs away crying, etc. So so sick of it. My daughter is turning 10 in December and her father lives far away so she basically gets nothing from him and my MIL pretends that her and our 3 yr old do not exist so this year I too am getting her whatever she wants and everyone can cry or be mad or do whatever because I don't care anymore. Too bad!!

I end up trying to keep the peace so my daughter suffers, then MIL feels sorry for poor SD15 so she takes her on a $500 shopping spree to the mall then cries poor to everyone. She doesn't take my kids shopping or even ask to see them ever.
SD gets presents from us, her mother, her mothers mother, my MIL and her aunts.

My daughter gets presents only from us so she gets screwed every year.

SD15 is ungrateful bitch who does not appreciate anything at all. She gets everything handed to her while my kids get nothing and this year that is going to change. My daughter wants a touch screen cell phone and guess what shes gonna get.

Wait until SD finds out I am not letting her come to the birthday party }:)

crystalyzed's picture

Wow that sounds like my house. Well good for us. It's time we stand up for our own kids, i'm so sick of all the crap, and my husband says "oh well people do stupid shit they don't think" ok so my kids should be hurt and that's is that, Not Anymore!!!!

imjustthemaid's picture

Well I am so over this entire MIL taking SD shopping all the time, then SD comes home and shows everything off to my daughter that she got. My daughter is so good, she never says anything but to see the look on her face breaks my heart. She has no grandma to take her shopping and MIL is so mean to exclude her from everything all the time.

So for her bday I am getting her a new camera because SD broke hers over the summer, new touch screen phone and a bunch of smaller stuff and I want SD to cry like she always does and let DH deal with her jealousy. She even cried at my bday this year and when he yelled at her she tried to say she was not crying over the bday, she was crying because she has no shorts to wear!! wtf?? shes crazy.

So from now on my kids will not suffer while SD is treated like a princess. Enough is enough already!! I'm ready for a battle!!
Bring it on!!