You are here

Chmmy's Blog

I dont get it

Chmmy's picture

I dont understand the skids...ok I do, I understand that no matter how badly you are treated, neglected and /or abused by your parents, they are still your parents and you just want to be loved by that parent but i dont understand why that is in most cases even in to adulthood.

Explain the logic ??

Chmmy's picture

We set up a smart tv with cable box and a couple of couches in the basement for the boys, SS10 & SS12, so they can watch porn & other inappropriate things without anyone bothering them since the internet/screen rules & bedtime rules we(me) put into place last year are all have gone out the window.

Funny

Chmmy's picture

The skids have been out of school for 4 weeks. BM took them for the weekend so that makes it 4 days in June she had time to take the kids or couldnt come up with an excuse. 4 days of 30 and she pays $50/wk for 4 kids(one in college)

Funny how rain(weather) is an excuse to not pick up the kids but we had quite a monsoon today and she managed to not only get the skkds home but git them home early. Funny isnt it?

Father's day

Chmmy's picture

My bio son 22 lost his dad in Nov 2014. I married DH just over a year ago but we've known each other for almost 4 years. My bio called DH on fathers day just to chat. DH is a great step father but such a crap father. Im glad he has been good to my kids and they appreciate him but I wish he'd get it together with his own hot mess of 4 children he has spawned. My kids are both adults so they never lived with us and they were in college when we started dating so there was never any drama.

My irresponsible husband

Chmmy's picture

As i sit here with my son, 24, who has a concussion from a car accident, i think about how irresponsible my husband is....just shitty, irresponsible parenting. My bio son has missed 3 weeks of work and will be out next week too, maybe more. He has a nuerologist appt on the 17th and starts physical therapy on the 26th. My son is a responsible driver & was wearing a seatbelt. He is miserable and doesn't deserve this. I drive 3.5 hrs to spend time with him several times a week so he doesnt have to sit in the dark by himself for 8 hrs while his gf works.

Counseling for dh

Chmmy's picture

DH wants to go to counseling. He feels me distancing myself more & more and wants to better himself to improve our marraige. Since he is not one to follow through I said whatever. He says Im not being supportive. Lol whatever.

My question is what kind of counselor should I encourage him to see. Is there counselors who specialize in blended/step families. I dont feel like all counselors would understand thw dynamics of step hell.

Some things better left unsaid

Chmmy's picture

I need to say this here so I dont say it at home. BM raises her pets like she raises her children...feral.

She has this crazy dog, German Shepard, one of my favorite breeds. Ive said before when she loses her house and goes back to an apartment I WILL NOT TAKE HER DOG. I took her feral children and turned then into something halfway acceptable. Nope to the dog.

Good thing for filters...do you have one?

Chmmy's picture

DH & skids were sorting laundry...funny we use the term skids because the undies had plenty of them. Anyway its getting warm and the laundry was a bit stinky. DH says have you been using deoderant? SS10 says do I have to? DH says unless you want to be picked on. My thought stopped by filter....more than you already do. Glad my filter worked. Not trying to be mean but the kid does get picked on from his lack of eyebrows to his red hair to his not so charming personality.  I hope he has friends when he gets older. Ugh he is just not a likable kid.

Good thing for filters...do you have one?

Chmmy's picture

DH & skids were sorting laundry...funny we use the term skids because the undies had plenty of them. Anyway its getting warm and the laundry was a bit stinky. DH says have you been using deoderant? SS10 says do I have to? DH says unless you want to be picked on. My thought stopped by filter....more than you already do. Glad my filter worked. Not trying to be mean but the kid does get picked on from his lack of eyebrows to his red hair to his not so charming personality.  I hope he has friends when he gets older. Ugh he is just not a likable kid.

Weird text from SD20

Chmmy's picture

Yesterday I got a Happy Mother's Day text from SD20 who Ive also referred to as favorite skid. She's probably my favorite because she's never home...also she is so damn funny. She's a sweet girl but very irresponsible, blames everyone for her problems and is always telling poor me stories to explain her shortcoming...ok after describing her in words almost sounds like I dont like her but I do wish her the best and wish she'd get her act together.

Pages