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Cameras part 2

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SS11 just left his last will and testament on the camera.  He's almost cute sometimes, lol.  Both kids protested the camera through the camera but they were talking to DH saying, "I know you're stalking us", joking but also saying the don't want the cameras 24/7. DH has no access to the cameras and won't.  The best part is the kids think this is all DH!!  I'd be proud of him for taking the blame, but I finally got him to agree to cameras when the riots were going on because he is telling th kids it is for safety.  As long as the little pumpkins don't feel sad for being monitored like it is

Cameras!!

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Got the cameras set up.  I've been wanting to do this for a long time but I didn't have the nerve to do it, it's invasive.  At this point, I don't care.  SS13 says to DH, "I don't like being monitored."  Too bad you fucking lying piece of shit.  They want the cameras on only at night or when no one is home...how bout no.  Years of opportunity for these kids to gain my trust.  They went from lying to lying about me.  Cameras 24/7 kiddos.  If they don't like it please move to your mothers home.

not an exit plan but surviving for now

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I apologize for the dramatic post a couple nights ago.  I was in a bad place and you guys are my lifeline at times.  I'm in Michigan with my youngest son, he turned 24 yesterday.  I'm feeling much better but I do have to go home by Tuesday to work.  I will do my best to avoid the children and my husband by only being home to sleep and get ready for work in the morning.  Friday is my birthday and I will be returning to Michigan for another long weekend, my older son is moving from his apartment in to a house!!

Cameras, lying and escaping

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I finally ordered cameras. Four of them. I took SS13s wifi privilege away for one hour because i had 5 kids here ...the 2 SSs and 3 of their cousins which i offered to watch because I love my in laws. All 5 kids were on devices and tv since they had got there the night before even the 7 year old so around noon i told the kids to  go outside and ill make lunch. All of them did except guess who. I gave him a half hour and I unplugged the wifi. He went stomping up the stairs and plugged it back in so i disconnected the cord completely. 

Tired of waiting for something to happen

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SS13 is going to be a sex offender.  He is on the spectrum and makes impusive, bad choices. He is addicted to porn...like every time he gets his hands on a device he is not supposed to have he searches for inappropriate material.  His choice of porn is rape and I've also found pornhub videos of incest between step siblings, siblings, mom and step mom in his history.  THere was one that was 'walking in on your step sister masterbating and..."  I didn't watch to see what happens, lol.  I'm just waiting for something to happen.  BM has step daughters who are approx his age.  They all stay up l

Father's Day and disengaged

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My youngest son, 23, got my husband a father's day gift.  So sweet of him.  My ex, the kids' dad, passed away in Nov 2014.  My kids like DH but they were 23 and 21 when we got married and both had lived out of state for college and now work out of state so they never really bonded with him.   If you think it is hard to bond with steps after divorce, imagine trying to bond after the death of a parent. My oldest son, 25 is in EMDR trauma therapy for a car accident, they think anxiety exasperates his symptoms.  The next time he meets with his therapist they will be discussing the death of his

BM in the house

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It's a beautiful day.  I want to go outside.  Ive been waitng for the little skids to leave so I don't even have to look at them. They were supposed to leave last night and I was sooooo looking forward to it  Im hiding in my room and now BM is in my house.  I'm certainly not going down there now.  Just leave so I can go outside and sit in the sun.  FML.  She comes inside to pick up the kids which is fine but DH isn't here and she is downstairs picking up SS13 and SS11 and talking to SD21.

child support question

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I've seen a few posts on facebook where stepmoms complain that their DH pays BM CS in cash/check or other method that is not through the state.  That money is then considered a 'gift' and their DH still owed BM her CS even though he paid her unofficially.  I'm not really sure how it works but you have to make it official and not just get a receipt or BM can still come after the BD for the full amount owed.

Sad story for animal lovers...I know there is lots of you out there.

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My son, 25 and his girlfriend of almost 10 years have been blessed with a 2 of the cutest, mostly well-behaved(slightly mischievious) bunnies.  They are best friends aka 'baby bunny cuddle buddies'.  They are about 6 months apart and the older of the 2 has had health problems lately.  There was something wrong with his leg but doctors couldn't figure out what is wrong.

Wish I brought more clothes

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I broke out of quarantine hell and came to visit my 23 yr old son who has been working from home for 6 weeks. I came on Friday night and planned on leaving Sunday morning(today). Im like a different person here, relaxed with my kid and no skids. He said to me last night 'what time do you have to leave tomorrow? Or do you have to leave?' Im running out of clean clothes but I can stay one more day! Unfortunately the skids are gone with BM...all 4 of them for the 1st time EVERand Im missing out on that. I still want to stay with my kiddo one more day.

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