let me just start off saying I’m so glad I found this site. I felt like such a horrible person never liking my step kids. I’ve been with my husband for 8 years and they are annoying and I resent them because of how much child support we pay for them. With out going into too much I just have to say how awful are these ex wives!? They tell the men they never spend enough time with the kids but keep pulling and pulling more money from them which means they have to work more and more to pay for it!