Anyone have any experience with H or SO refusing to collect CS from BM? This has been going on for years and I've never been able to understand why. We are financially comfortable, so we don't "need" the money now, but now that H feels the need to buy SD15.75 a car for her 16th bday and tell her he'll cover some undefined amount of college tuition, I'm getting a bit concerned about how we're going to swing it alone. He has no intention of collecting CS from BM ever...his words. I swear, if we didn't live 5 states apart I'd question the relationship!