I have been married to my husband for 4 years. He has 4 children from a previous marriage. They are 22, 20, 16, and 11 and they do not like me. They used to, but then my husband filed for a modification on his divorce from their mother because he agreed to pay for a lot of things besides paying child support and when the oldest child went to college, she chose an out of state 4 year university that costs a lot more than he anticipated. He won the modification and since then, 3 of his 4 children don't visit and his youngest is very disrespectful to both of us when she comes here.