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Someone posted about not knowing what "normal" is anymore...
I don't think many people know what "normal" is anymore.
So many people seem to be "doing their own thing" nowadays. Not that we weren't before, but it seems to be happening so much more.
For those who call their minor sks names here and say they banned minor skids from their home...
(and let me preface this by saying it is better to call someone names here on an anonymous venting site than it is anywhere else, and I'm not saying this to be hurtful, but these things mentioned below may be very real possibilities)
ILs hanging with bm
I don't think anyone should attempt to dictate or express their feelings on whom other adults hang out with unless the situation is really drastic. That includes ILs hanging out with bm. While some may consider ILs not hanging out with bm as ILs observing proper boundaries, others may feel that they still want to be friends with bm. And adults shouldn't be telling other adults who they should associate with.
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I can see why the Bible frowns upon cheating and divorce
after reading so many of the blogs on this site. Both of those things just screw up so many things for all people affected by them.
Putting the marriage first...when the SK just doesn't care for the SP
What do you think about this?
and not because the SP is a bad person, but because the SK often have their own issues (whatever they may be) to work through.
Some things I think every SM should know and remember
I know many of these could get me flamed and many of you will disagree with them. So please don't take it as a personal attack, but rather how I feel about things.
1. BM does not have to agree with how DH parents or how we "parent."
2. BM and SKs are not obligated to love or like us. Just like we do not have to love or like them.
3. The reality is that the kids do not come here to spend time with us or our kids (even if our kids are also DHs). They come here to spend time with Dad.
Do you think bm should have to coparent with sm at all?
Bullet's blog post got me thinking about this.
Me personally, I don't ever want to talk to bm so dh does all the interacting with her.
Under what circumstances do you think it's ok for BM to move with the kids
This seems to come up on this board a lot.
Hug your kids and stepkids (depending on the situation)-the Somer Thompson case
She was a 7 year old girl who was kidnapped, raped and murdered on her way home from school.
Her killer, Jarred Harrell, strangled her, raped her and threw her in the trash. Her body was found in a Georgia landfill.
I just learned about this case recently. It makes me sick.
Jarred Harrell plead guilty and got 6 life sentences without parole. He's not in general population :sick:
Brandi Glanville vs. LeAnn Rimes...BM vs. SM...whose side are you on?
Me: I'm on Brandi's side. LeAnn "needs" coping skills and therapy- hello LeAnn, you caused this situation, deal with it!
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/02/brandi-glanville-leann-rimes-t...