Me and my BF got into it where we both decided to take time to think if I really want to deal with him and his teenage kids. As I explained to him, my love for him genuinely has grown. But as for the kids, because they are teens and not young where affection takes place, and its only been 5 months, developing love for them has taken more time that my feelings for him. He explained that he already has a family, him and the 2 kids, and that I have to get use to that. However, my argument is its only 5 months and I'm still learning these kids.