Hi everyone, 

I am new to this blog and I came across it today when I googled "I can't stand my stepchildren anymore".

Well... let's start from the fact that I am not yet married to my partner... he still has to get his divorce (after only 3 years!!!!) and I am constantly reminded of the fact that I am not yet a stepmum and that I don't carry the same surname. He has 3 little girls and they are lovely children (most of the time), but they are seriously traumatised but their parents' divorce, they are spoiled and have a constant need for attention.