Mom refuses to listen to my opinions after all I have done for them both and it hurts! She had him young so I get some of it. She is a great Mom. Actually wished she would have been the mother of my child. Dad was very selfish and finally left the picture when he turned 11. We were introduced shortly after and I started helping raise him. Overall I have no regrets, but mom always felt some type of guilt. This made her over compensate and let him grow up with little responsibility. It is showing big time now!