I've been with for fiance 6 1/2 years now and have been engaged for 1 year. When I met him, his son was 5 and my son was 6. I never clicked with his son. We had a baby 1 year later. There has always been issues with this child being rude in the beginning. I tried my best to teach him manners but still could'nt stand to ba around him. When I was pregnant, he gave me such a hard time that whenever I think about my pregnancy it makes me sick and disgusted because of this child. About 2 years ago, I gave my boyfriend an alternative that either I need to go or his son does.