I always grew up with the thought that family is family no matter what. Now I feel like in my house I have two families; 1 is me and my husband and 1 is my husband and his 2 kids. They act as if they don't want me to be around just put up with me. Now my husband and I are fighting because I don't want to take his kids to my parents house for the holidays. I hate myself for saying that I don't want them to have a relationship with my side of the family but I really don't feel like they are my kids, not even stepkids.